Cuffing season is upon us my friends and with that comes the awkward pressure to find someone if you aren’t in a relationship.
Let me just tell you that that is a bunch of BS. There is no reason to feel pressured into finding someone to date just because it’s a specific time of year. The simple fact is that being single can be hella cool and liberating.

- It forces you to understand who you are, what you need, and what you want out of your life
- You can watch whatever you want on Netflix with zero judgement
- You can listen to the same song on repeat indefinitely
- You get to decide what to eat for dinner without having to compromise
- You can focus on your mental health
- You can focus on your self-care
- You can focus on you career
- You can pick up a new hobby
- You can be as gross as you want in your apartment because no one is there to judge you – go ahead and fart and walk around naked (if you have no roommates)
- You can spend more time with friends and family
- Gilt-free flirting
- More free time to do whatever you want
- You don’t have to answer to anyone – you can come and go as you please
- You don’t have to clear your browsing history
- You can dress however you want without having to think twice
- You don’t have to feel guilty about being on your phone
- You can post all the thirst traps you want
- You can make spur of the moment plans
- You grow and develop your passions and skills
- You have more time to be you
- You save a bunch of money
- You get to spend that money saved on yourself doing cool things
- You get to be a strong independent person that doesn’t need someone to make them happy or to fulfill their life
- You don’t have to put up with other people’s moods, annoying habits, or opinions
- You don’t have to worry about anyone cheating on you.